– The fixee doesn’t place effort into enhancing on their own, for themselves. They could make changes that are temporary will revert right straight straight back. They feel insecure as a result of it. They feel more serious about by themselves and away from defensiveness may blame the fixer with regards to their struggles that are continued.
– The fixer gets frustrated in the not enough progress simply because they worry. They could have the fixee is not as committed to their very own enhancement in order to find that to be selfish. The fixer seems unappreciated and hurt being the only person putting in work whilst getting blamed for wanting to help. All of this builds resentment which they sign up for from the fixee.
– This cycle of insecurity, resentment, attacking, and not enough modification continues. Either both events remain miserable or some body fundamentally will leave.
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